April 20, 2006
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Right…
At what point in a girls life do they learn that when they are with a guy they will quit making decisions. I know I am speaking generally here, and I know that there are girls who know how to make decisions. And the few exceptions that there are, I know who you are and love you guys for being able to do so.
But you lot out there. I want to know when you really learned this skill. Some of you look confused and let me tell you what I mean.
Boy: Hey where do you want to eat?
Girl: I don’t know?
Boy: You want Japanese, Chinese, Western, or Korean?
Girl: I don’t know.
Boy: Just pick one.
Girl: I don’t know what I want.
Boy: 10-9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1 Pick!
Girl: You choose.
Ring a bell, any familiarity?
I don’t know where you learned it. But we certainly don’t have this skill. I don’t know if you got a manual when you were a kid that said, when with a guy, let them choose. I wish that girls sometimes knew what they wanted.
I think most of my friends I know when you ask them what they want, they can suggest something, and that’s great. But the lot of you who cannot decide, please please please try to learn. I think it’s great sometimes when we get to decide, but when guys are asking you where you want to eat, they are being genuine. They are not doing it to be nice. They really want to take you to a place where you want to go and not always the places they want to go.
So stop and think of all the wonderful foods that reside in your cities, and make a list of where you want to go. Mental list. Then the next when said men ask “what o you want to eat?” you can say. Oh there’s this japanese restaurant in SOHO i’ve been meaning to try, lets go there…..
Guys relate…
Jonathan Out!
Comments (4)
Who says that they know what they want around girls? What makes you think that immediately with a guy a girl loses the ability to make decisions? I mean, is it possible to imagine that she might not really know what she wants and that isn’t based on guys or anyone for that matter? I know that you are a good guy, Jon, but that is slightly chauvinistic.
we’re supposed to be submissive and shit.
not that that’s how I roll..
i dont agree that that is a general occurance.. but it DOES happen.. i think in those relationships, the girls have depended on the guy not just for food decisions, but for everything, including their sense of self. very sad indeed!
Next time I come back to HK, let’s go out to eat…You pick the place… ; )